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	<title>Comments on: Goals Are Not the Problem. You Are the Problem.</title>
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		<title>By: JD</title>
		<link>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-541</link>
		<dc:creator>JD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Feb 2008 07:28:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sadly, I think the real problem is that there's not enough prescriptive guidance on goal techniques that actully work.  For example, while a lot of people may know about setting S.M.A.R.T. goals, not everybody knows the real keys to effective goal setting.

Probably the single most important thing behind creating a useful goal is to have a compelling "why".  Sure, it sounds obvious once you know it, but if you don't know it, there's a good chance you'll miss your goals.  You why is your staying power and your guide.  If you have a compelling why, you'll find the strategies.

Now, assuming you have your compelling whys and your ladder is up against the right wall, how do actually carve up an effective plan?  Not everybody is familiar with creating work breakdown structures.  Not everybody has a reliable mentor or somebody they can model their success from.

I think it really is a case where proven practices go a long way for effective goal crafting and reaching your goals.  A lot of action without insight is a recipe for learned helplessness, just like a lot of insight without action, is yet another path to unfullfilled dreams.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sadly, I think the real problem is that there&#8217;s not enough prescriptive guidance on goal techniques that actully work.  For example, while a lot of people may know about setting S.M.A.R.T. goals, not everybody knows the real keys to effective goal setting.</p>
<p>Probably the single most important thing behind creating a useful goal is to have a compelling &#8220;why&#8221;.  Sure, it sounds obvious once you know it, but if you don&#8217;t know it, there&#8217;s a good chance you&#8217;ll miss your goals.  You why is your staying power and your guide.  If you have a compelling why, you&#8217;ll find the strategies.</p>
<p>Now, assuming you have your compelling whys and your ladder is up against the right wall, how do actually carve up an effective plan?  Not everybody is familiar with creating work breakdown structures.  Not everybody has a reliable mentor or somebody they can model their success from.</p>
<p>I think it really is a case where proven practices go a long way for effective goal crafting and reaching your goals.  A lot of action without insight is a recipe for learned helplessness, just like a lot of insight without action, is yet another path to unfullfilled dreams.</p>
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		<title>By: Lion Kimbro</title>
		<link>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-536</link>
		<dc:creator>Lion Kimbro</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 18:55:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-536</guid>
		<description>I like the approach of Alexander Kjerulf, above:  attention to what our goals are.

I'd add some perspective on:  the role of goal-setting in our lives, and the great pattern of life.

Somehow, in the successful-entrepreneur-to-be culture I find myself in, I find a wealth of selfish goals:  Make $X dollars, by year such-and-such;  Get a house, a boat, find a pretty wife, live by the beach, and so on.  It's not that I'm angry about this;  But rather: they seem to be on the small side.  The genie from the bottle can demonstrate: "What would you like?" and the person responds:  "Wealth, castle, and pretty wife."  This is a shallow dream.  Contrast with Oberto Airaudi, founder of Damanhur, or the dreams of activists, many of whom are doing the work of saving the Earth, and so on.  Now who is dreaming large, and who is dreaming small?

And why are we reading (success) books that encourage small dreams?

I'd point to Napoleon Hill's later works, nearer to the end of his life;  He wrote a book called, "You Can Work Your Own Miracles."  Most people don't point to this book, but I found it intensely interesting and invigorating.  Napoleon Hill goes deeper into his true cards (spirituality,) and he notes that he was short-sighted to pay attention only to extravagant stories of personal wealth accumulation.  I believe he saw that much of the work that goes on is not in steel and empire (which, surely, is important,) but much closer to the ground.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like the approach of Alexander Kjerulf, above:  attention to what our goals are.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d add some perspective on:  the role of goal-setting in our lives, and the great pattern of life.</p>
<p>Somehow, in the successful-entrepreneur-to-be culture I find myself in, I find a wealth of selfish goals:  Make $X dollars, by year such-and-such;  Get a house, a boat, find a pretty wife, live by the beach, and so on.  It&#8217;s not that I&#8217;m angry about this;  But rather: they seem to be on the small side.  The genie from the bottle can demonstrate: &#8220;What would you like?&#8221; and the person responds:  &#8220;Wealth, castle, and pretty wife.&#8221;  This is a shallow dream.  Contrast with Oberto Airaudi, founder of Damanhur, or the dreams of activists, many of whom are doing the work of saving the Earth, and so on.  Now who is dreaming large, and who is dreaming small?</p>
<p>And why are we reading (success) books that encourage small dreams?</p>
<p>I&#8217;d point to Napoleon Hill&#8217;s later works, nearer to the end of his life;  He wrote a book called, &#8220;You Can Work Your Own Miracles.&#8221;  Most people don&#8217;t point to this book, but I found it intensely interesting and invigorating.  Napoleon Hill goes deeper into his true cards (spirituality,) and he notes that he was short-sighted to pay attention only to extravagant stories of personal wealth accumulation.  I believe he saw that much of the work that goes on is not in steel and empire (which, surely, is important,) but much closer to the ground.</p>
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		<title>By: Vanessa</title>
		<link>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-461</link>
		<dc:creator>Vanessa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jan 2008 19:23:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-461</guid>
		<description>This post is so on point!!!!!  Saving this to blog about later LOL!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post is so on point!!!!!  Saving this to blog about later LOL!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Miloš</title>
		<link>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-426</link>
		<dc:creator>Miloš</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jan 2008 21:14:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-426</guid>
		<description>Clear, concise and to the point. :) I agree with you and have noticed a lot of people either giving up or thinking they are too cool to actually write their resolutions down and give it a shot. I started writing them down this year and I think a constant remainder is important when we "fall off the wagon" as that is inevitable to happen to all of us at some point.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Clear, concise and to the point. <img src='http://www.sufficientthrust.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> I agree with you and have noticed a lot of people either giving up or thinking they are too cool to actually write their resolutions down and give it a shot. I started writing them down this year and I think a constant remainder is important when we &#8220;fall off the wagon&#8221; as that is inevitable to happen to all of us at some point.</p>
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		<title>By: @Stephen</title>
		<link>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-412</link>
		<dc:creator>@Stephen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2008 20:23:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-412</guid>
		<description>Yes, yes, yes. Thanks for this. I was going to post on how I did my annual review, my new goals, and so on,but these posts were everywhere.
Instead I spent some more time with my wife and did some reading and research on other topics. Now I feel vindicated and ready to kick off some great new things, without the navel-gazing.
Thanks, Marina.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, yes, yes. Thanks for this. I was going to post on how I did my annual review, my new goals, and so on,but these posts were everywhere.<br />
Instead I spent some more time with my wife and did some reading and research on other topics. Now I feel vindicated and ready to kick off some great new things, without the navel-gazing.<br />
Thanks, Marina.</p>
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		<title>By: John B</title>
		<link>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-407</link>
		<dc:creator>John B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jan 2008 23:54:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-407</guid>
		<description>It's true, there do seem to be a lot of "I hate new years resolutions" posts out there this year. Some people try to achieve a goal but fail too many times and become disheartened. Too often they focus on the running from something they hate rather than reaching for something they'd love. You are absolutely right about that attitude about making mistakes. Look at Olympic athletes, they go through ups and downs, failures and successes but they don't give in.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s true, there do seem to be a lot of &#8220;I hate new years resolutions&#8221; posts out there this year. Some people try to achieve a goal but fail too many times and become disheartened. Too often they focus on the running from something they hate rather than reaching for something they&#8217;d love. You are absolutely right about that attitude about making mistakes. Look at Olympic athletes, they go through ups and downs, failures and successes but they don&#8217;t give in.</p>
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		<title>By: Bubs</title>
		<link>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-398</link>
		<dc:creator>Bubs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jan 2008 19:01:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-398</guid>
		<description>I meant add your feed to my reader</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I meant add your feed to my reader</p>
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		<title>By: Bubs</title>
		<link>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-397</link>
		<dc:creator>Bubs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jan 2008 14:02:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the comment on my blog, I will check out the free guide and your blog to my feed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the comment on my blog, I will check out the free guide and your blog to my feed.</p>
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		<title>By: Dave Charbonneau</title>
		<link>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-395</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave Charbonneau</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jan 2008 09:01:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-395</guid>
		<description>Here's a response I typed just this morning.  I have to admit, when I saw somebody leaving a post about goal setting, I was yawning a bit.  "Yeah, yeah; we've heard it all before.  Then, I took the time to really think about it, and this is what I wrote:

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I’ve found for me I always couldn’t stand setting goals, formally, anyhow. However, everything I had studied regarding succeeding encouraged goal setting. So, I kept doing it. It was rare that I met an objective on time, and yet I was always further ahead.

Then, something magical happened. No, it wasn’t the Beatles, tho that was pretty cool, too. Through this process of writing goals and moving forward, finding motivation and moving forward, creating ideas and moving forward; I was led to a point beyond MOTIVATION, and INSPIRATION was the rule, not the acception. The difference is PUSH vs. PULL. I am ‘pulled’ to excel, pulled forward, pulled to great abundance.

I want to share this message of personal experience for all those out there who shudder to think about setting goals, yet again; one more time. 

Keep doing it. Keep doing it. Keep doing it. You establish your goals, and today, tomorrow, or years from now (they’re going to pass anyway), the goals will be ‘establishing you.’ They will lift YOU, they will motivate YOU. What a great personal discovery.

--Dave Charbonneau
www.TheNetworkCapitalist.com
www.TheChickenWIRE.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s a response I typed just this morning.  I have to admit, when I saw somebody leaving a post about goal setting, I was yawning a bit.  &#8220;Yeah, yeah; we&#8217;ve heard it all before.  Then, I took the time to really think about it, and this is what I wrote:</p>
<p>++++<br />
I’ve found for me I always couldn’t stand setting goals, formally, anyhow. However, everything I had studied regarding succeeding encouraged goal setting. So, I kept doing it. It was rare that I met an objective on time, and yet I was always further ahead.</p>
<p>Then, something magical happened. No, it wasn’t the Beatles, tho that was pretty cool, too. Through this process of writing goals and moving forward, finding motivation and moving forward, creating ideas and moving forward; I was led to a point beyond MOTIVATION, and INSPIRATION was the rule, not the acception. The difference is PUSH vs. PULL. I am ‘pulled’ to excel, pulled forward, pulled to great abundance.</p>
<p>I want to share this message of personal experience for all those out there who shudder to think about setting goals, yet again; one more time. </p>
<p>Keep doing it. Keep doing it. Keep doing it. You establish your goals, and today, tomorrow, or years from now (they’re going to pass anyway), the goals will be ‘establishing you.’ They will lift YOU, they will motivate YOU. What a great personal discovery.</p>
<p>&#8211;Dave Charbonneau<br />
<a href="http://www.TheNetworkCapitalist.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.TheNetworkCapitalist.com</a><br />
<a href="http://www.TheChickenWIRE.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.TheChickenWIRE.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: Alexander Kjerulf</title>
		<link>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-394</link>
		<dc:creator>Alexander Kjerulf</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jan 2008 08:18:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.sufficientthrust.com/goals-are-not-the-problem-you-are-the-problem/#comment-394</guid>
		<description>I disagree somewhat.

The kind of rhetoric that you advance here - set a goal, make a plan, follow that plan no matter what - does not work for a lot of people.

True, some of the people who are not achieving their goals are just not working hard enough. But more often, in my experience, people have the wrong goals - and in this case, more effort is not the solution.

If you keep failing to reach your goals, I think it's much more useful to examine your goals, than to just work harder to reach them. In fact, I find, that when I have the right goals, I tend to reach them much more efficiently.

However, I agree completely that this is not controversial at all :o)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I disagree somewhat.</p>
<p>The kind of rhetoric that you advance here - set a goal, make a plan, follow that plan no matter what - does not work for a lot of people.</p>
<p>True, some of the people who are not achieving their goals are just not working hard enough. But more often, in my experience, people have the wrong goals - and in this case, more effort is not the solution.</p>
<p>If you keep failing to reach your goals, I think it&#8217;s much more useful to examine your goals, than to just work harder to reach them. In fact, I find, that when I have the right goals, I tend to reach them much more efficiently.</p>
<p>However, I agree completely that this is not controversial at all :o)</p>
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